WannaDate? Safety Guidelines
Last updated July 2, 2026
Your safety and well-being are our top priority.
IMPORTANT
Always prioritize your safety. Never ignore warning signs or feel pressured to continue an interaction that makes you uncomfortable.
BEFORE MEETING IN PERSON
Essential steps to take before your date:
- Chat First: Have meaningful conversations before meeting. Get to know the person's interests, goals, and communication style.
- Verify Identity: Verify their profile information and ask for additional verification if needed. Look for completed dates and positive reviews.
- Keep Chat to Logistics: Use chat to plan the time, place, and safety of your date only. Never negotiate money, gifts, allowances, or services—WannaDate? has zero tolerance for transactional dating.
- Share Your Plans: Tell a trusted friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to return.
- Use "Share Location" Feature: Consider sharing your live location with a friend using your phone's built-in location sharing features.
MEETING IN PUBLIC PLACES
Choose safe locations for your dates.
Recommended first date locations:
- Coffee shops or cafes (public, well-lit, lots of people)
- Restaurants (public dining areas, not private rooms)
- Parks or public spaces (during daylight hours)
- Museums or cultural events (public settings)
Avoid: Private residences, secluded areas, or locations where you can't easily leave if needed.
FINANCIAL SAFETY AND PLATFORM BOUNDARY
How money works on WannaDate?—and how to stay safe.
Platform-access fees only: WannaDate? only charges platform-access fees (tokens and Premium). We never facilitate, broker, process, or receive any payment between members.
Never send money or gifts to another member: Do not send cash, deposits, gift cards, or gifts to someone you met here, and do not accept requests for them. WannaDate? has zero tolerance for paid dating, escorting, allowances, or other transactional arrangements.
Watch for red flags: Be cautious of anyone who asks for money, gift cards, deposits, or any payment in exchange for time or companionship. This violates our rules.
Report it: If anyone tries to solicit money or offers a paid or transactional arrangement, report it immediately using the report feature on their profile.
DURING YOUR DATE
Stay safe while on your date.
Do:
- Trust your instincts
- Keep your phone charged and accessible
- Have your own transportation
- Stay in public areas
- Let someone know your location
- Set boundaries and communicate clearly
Don't:
- Ignore red flags or pressure
- Share personal financial information
- Feel obligated to continue if uncomfortable
- Leave your drink unattended
- Go to private residences on first dates
- Send money before meeting
RED FLAGS TO WATCH FOR
Warning signs that something may be wrong.
Behavioral red flags:
- Aggressive or threatening language
- Pressuring you to meet quickly
- Refusing to share basic information
- Asking for money or personal details
- Disrespectful or inappropriate comments
Profile red flags:
- Blurry or suspicious profile photos
- Incomplete or unrealistic profile
- Very few or no completed dates
- Negative or concerning reviews
- Impersonating someone else
BLOCK AND REPORT
End contact and get help when something feels wrong.
Block someone: You can block a member from their profile, from chat, or from Settings → Blocked Users. Blocking works both ways — neither of you can message, send date requests, wink, or see each other in browse after a block.
What happens when you block: Any pending or accepted date with that person is cancelled automatically. If tokens were charged at acceptance, only the person you blocked may receive a token back — your token is not refunded when you initiate the block. Unblocking does not restore cancelled dates.
Report someone: Blocking and reporting are separate. Use Report an Issue (/report) or the report button on a profile when you believe someone violated our rules. Safety and harassment reports are reviewed by our team. You can block without reporting, or report and optionally block afterward.
IF YOU FEEL UNSAFE
Know what to do in an emergency.
Immediate actions:
- Trust your instincts and leave immediately if you feel unsafe
- Call 911 for emergencies or local authorities
- Report the incident through our platform's report feature
- Contact local victim support services if needed
Emergency Services: Call 911 for immediate help.
Report on Platform: Use the report button on profiles to report safety concerns.
Your safety is our priority. If you have any concerns or questions, please don't hesitate to contact us (/contact).