Social Dating Platform
18+ OnlyInclusive for All

WannaDate?

Built for real date intentions—not endless matching that relies on hope and goes nowhere.

Plan a real first date

Real-date-first flow

Start with profile fit, then send a request and plan an in-person meetup in chat. The goal is an actual date, not endless swiping.

Set date intent clearly

Date-fit signals

Companions can share Date Style Level 1-5 on profile and date expectations, or leave both blank for a profile focused on vibe and compatibility.

Winks, not pressure

Lightweight interest

Companions can send a wink to show interest—it is not a date request and does not open chat. Seekers review winks in their inbox and send a date request only if they choose.

We help you get to a real meetup - safely and clearly.

Use WannaDate? like an app on your phone

Not in the App Store or Google Play yet, but you can add it to your home screen in seconds.

See iPhone + Android setup steps

Inclusive for All

Real connections across orientations and identities. Everyone belongs here.

Four adults — two men and two women of different backgrounds — socializing on an urban rooftop terrace

For everyone

Man and woman couple

Men and women dating

Black man and white man couple

Men who date men

Latina woman and Asian woman couple

Women who date women

Black woman and white man couple

Interracial connections

Latino person and Asian person, trans and non-binary inclusive

Trans & non-binary inclusive

What You Can Find Here

Built for people who want a real connection: for date seekers, find someone you are genuinely drawn to; for date companions, design your ideal date experience and make it happen with someone you feel a real spark with.

For Date Seekers
Find your dream date partner, someone you find deeply attractive, and someone you could truly fall in love with.

Browse companions, receive winks from interested companions in your inbox, and send a date request when you are ready for a real-world first date.

For Date Companions
Lay out your dream date experience and watch it come together with someone you are genuinely excited to meet.

Showcase your style, browse opt-in seekers, send winks to invite interest, and accept date requests from people who match your energy.

Why Choose WannaDate?

Safe, verified connections focused on real meetups

Verified & Safe

Email verification, ratings, and reviews. Reporting and moderation tools support safer connections.

Verified Reputation

Build trust through verified reviews. See profile reputation signals before connecting so expectations are clearer from the start.

Real-Time Chat

Chat with matches instantly to coordinate a real meetup with clear expectations.

Plan Together Easily

Coordinate date logistics smoothly in chat and pick a time and place that works for both of you.

No Endless Swiping

Built for meaningful matching and real plans, not infinite scrolling and dead-end chats.

Clear Platform Pricing

No hidden platform fees. Tokens and Premium pay for site features only—not for dates between users. Straightforward plans.

Privacy First

Your data is secure. Email verification required. Privacy policy protects your information.

Inclusive for Everyone

Support for all orientations and gender identities. Choose from Male, Female, Transgender, or Non-Binary. Date companions can specify who they want to date—no restrictions, no judgment.

You're in Control

Block users instantly, manage notifications, and decide who can contact you. You set the boundaries.

Winks

Companions send winks to show interest without a date request. Seekers get a dedicated inbox, dismiss winks they are not interested in, and stay in control of who gets a request.

Ready to plan a real first date?

Start with 3 free tokens. Build your profile, send a request, and take the conversation to a real meetup.