WannaDate?
Built for real date intentions—not endless matching that relies on hope and goes nowhere.
Plan a real first date
Real-date-first flow
Start with profile fit, then send a request and plan an in-person meetup in chat. The goal is an actual date, not endless swiping.
Set date intent clearly
Date-fit signals
Companions can share Date Style Level 1-5 on profile and date expectations, or leave both blank for a profile focused on vibe and compatibility.
Winks, not pressure
Lightweight interest
Companions can send a wink to show interest—it is not a date request and does not open chat. Seekers review winks in their inbox and send a date request only if they choose.
We help you get to a real meetup - safely and clearly.
Use WannaDate? like an app on your phone
Not in the App Store or Google Play yet, but you can add it to your home screen in seconds.
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Real connections across orientations and identities. Everyone belongs here.

For everyone

Men and women dating

Men who date men

Women who date women

Interracial connections

Trans & non-binary inclusive
What You Can Find Here
Built for people who want a real connection: for date seekers, find someone you are genuinely drawn to; for date companions, design your ideal date experience and make it happen with someone you feel a real spark with.
Browse companions, receive winks from interested companions in your inbox, and send a date request when you are ready for a real-world first date.
Showcase your style, browse opt-in seekers, send winks to invite interest, and accept date requests from people who match your energy.
Why Choose WannaDate?
Safe, verified connections focused on real meetups
Email verification, ratings, and reviews. Reporting and moderation tools support safer connections.
Build trust through verified reviews. See profile reputation signals before connecting so expectations are clearer from the start.
Chat with matches instantly to coordinate a real meetup with clear expectations.
Coordinate date logistics smoothly in chat and pick a time and place that works for both of you.
Built for meaningful matching and real plans, not infinite scrolling and dead-end chats.
No hidden platform fees. Tokens and Premium pay for site features only—not for dates between users. Straightforward plans.
Your data is secure. Email verification required. Privacy policy protects your information.
Support for all orientations and gender identities. Choose from Male, Female, Transgender, or Non-Binary. Date companions can specify who they want to date—no restrictions, no judgment.
Block users instantly, manage notifications, and decide who can contact you. You set the boundaries.
Companions send winks to show interest without a date request. Seekers get a dedicated inbox, dismiss winks they are not interested in, and stay in control of who gets a request.